{"id":11525,"date":"2025-02-24T18:22:02","date_gmt":"2025-02-24T17:22:02","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.chapelle-sainte-rita.com\/engagement-of-helene-and-baudouin\/"},"modified":"2025-03-13T11:36:23","modified_gmt":"2025-03-13T10:36:23","slug":"engagement-of-helene-and-baudouin","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.chapelle-sainte-rita.com\/en\/engagement-of-helene-and-baudouin\/","title":{"rendered":"Engagement of H\u00e9l\u00e8ne and Baudouin"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>We were delighted to witness the engagement of<strong>H\u00e9l\u00e8ne SIMONIN<\/strong> to <strong>Baudouin COTTON de BENNETOT<\/strong>. They have known each other for two years and are planning to marry at the end of September. We&#8217;ve known H\u00e9l\u00e8ne, her parents and her 4 brothers for almost 25 years.  <\/p>\n\n<p>Let&#8217;s not forget that to become engaged in Latin means &#8220;to entrust oneself to&#8221;, because in Roman times, it was up to the man&#8217;s parents to ask his bride&#8217;s hand in marriage. Today, <strong>engagement<\/strong> symbolizes love, a mutual declaration to move forward together, and even a first and often definitive step towards marriage.<\/p>\n\n<p>Engagement marks the transition from love to commitment. It&#8217;s one thing to love, it&#8217;s another to make a lifelong commitment. Why is it necessary to make a commitment at a time of PACS, cohabitation and common-law unions? That&#8217;s the question young people are asking themselves. Will I be able to make a lasting commitment and be faithful for life? In the light of the Church, marriage is indissoluble. The engagement period is a time to reflect on these questions, on what&#8217;s at stake in marriage, and to remain free in your choices. To do this, you need to be trained. This is the objective of the journey that precedes the definitive commitment to marriage.        <\/p>\n\n<p>Engagement expresses that beautiful reality that human love wants to embrace: the very love of Christ in the sacrament of marriage. Christ elevates human love to transcendent love. Christ unites the &#8220;two hands&#8221; of the engaged couple. Then he unites the couple on the wedding day. It&#8217;s a &#8220;three-way love&#8221;, you might say.    <\/p>\n\n<p>The betrothal is celebrated with a blessing for the engaged couple.<\/p>\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image aligncenter size-large is-resized\"><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"621\" src=\"https:\/\/www.chapelle-sainte-rita.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/02\/image-1-1024x621.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-11250\" style=\"width:536px;height:auto\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.chapelle-sainte-rita.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/02\/image-1-1024x621.png 1024w, https:\/\/www.chapelle-sainte-rita.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/02\/image-1-300x182.png 300w, https:\/\/www.chapelle-sainte-rita.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/02\/image-1-768x465.png 768w, https:\/\/www.chapelle-sainte-rita.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/02\/image-1.png 1170w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-center\">&#8220;<strong>God our Father, we are yours and our lives rest in your hands. You never leave us alone, and with you we have nothing to fear. Bless H\u00e9l\u00e8ne and Baudouin on this day of their engagement. Send them your light: may they recognize that they are made for each other.   <\/strong><\/p>\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-center\"><strong>Protect them on the path they are about to take together, so that they may live this time of preparation for marriage in respectful, responsible love. In mutual trust and faith in you, may they move more surely towards each other. Through Jesus Christ, our Lord&#8221;.  <\/strong> <strong>Amen.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image aligncenter size-large is-resized\"><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/www.chapelle-sainte-rita.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/02\/image001-683x1024.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-11263\" style=\"width:385px;height:auto\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.chapelle-sainte-rita.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/02\/image001-683x1024.png 683w, https:\/\/www.chapelle-sainte-rita.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/02\/image001-200x300.png 200w, https:\/\/www.chapelle-sainte-rita.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/02\/image001-768x1151.png 768w, https:\/\/www.chapelle-sainte-rita.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/02\/image001-1025x1536.png 1025w, https:\/\/www.chapelle-sainte-rita.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/02\/image001-1366x2048.png 1366w, https:\/\/www.chapelle-sainte-rita.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/02\/image001.png 1668w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-center\"><\/p>\n\n<p><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>We were delighted to witness the engagement ofH\u00e9l\u00e8ne SIMONIN to Baudouin COTTON de BENNETOT. They have known each other for two years and are planning to marry at the end of September. We&#8217;ve known H\u00e9l\u00e8ne, her parents and her 4 brothers for almost 25 years. 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